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Catholic School Parents Continue to Protest Principal Change

About 15 parents stood in front of Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic School Friday, pleading with church officials to reinstate the school's outgoing principal.

 

Sharon Garon stood on the sidewalk in front of Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic School on Friday morning, raising a sign with her left hand that said "We Heart IHM" while clutching a cup of coffee with her right.

"This is the first time I've protested anything," the mother of a second-grader and a fourth-grader at the school said as rush hour traffic whizzed by on Briarcliff Road. 

Garon was one of a group of parents who, for the last two months, have been protesting the Roman Catholic Archdiocese of Atlanta's plans to replace the school's principal, Tricia DeWitt, by Easter. Parents claim DeWitt, who resigned last month, was forced from her job by the Rev. James Schillinger, head of the Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church. Undisclosed tensions between the two, including the idenity of an anonymous donor who pledged $1 million to the school last year, reportedly led to DeWitt's resignation.

DeWitt is expected to remain in her post until June and has publicly asked parents in a letter not to protest her resignation because it distracts the school. But several parents protesting Friday said they have spoken to DeWitt and do not believe the letter reflects the principal's true feelings and that DeWitt, in fact, wants her job back. DeWitt has not responded to interview requests from North Druid Hills-Briarcliff Patch.

"What's being done is wrong, and I'm against it, and I protest it," said Sal DePasquale, another parent.

Disagreements over the school's leadership with Schillinger were likely brewing for some time before DeWitt's resignation, Garon said.

"[DeWitt] probably protected us from it for a long time," she said. "She did the right thing for a long time not exposing us to it."

The source of those tensions–with the exception of the donation–remain unclear, and rumors abound among parents at the school. Pat Chivers, an archdiocese spokeswoman, declined to speak in detail about the resignation, and Schillinger's office directed all questions to Chivers on Friday. Friday was also the deadline to apply for the principal position, and parents said they believe the church isn't allowing DeWitt to be reconsidered for the job.

Mike Watson, parent to a second-grader at the school, said DeWitt helped lead the school to be named one of 50 Blue Ribbon private schools nationwide by the U.S. Department of Education in 2009. He said he believes Schillinger seeks to exert more influence over the school.

"He stripped all her power from her to run the school on a day-to-day basis," he said.

Chivers said the church has three different documents, including the resignation letter, that DeWitt has signed, saying she wasn't forced from her position. Schillinger also didn't immediately accept her resignation, Chivers said. But if DeWitt wants her job back, she should be given it, Watson said – whether she willfully resigned or not.

"That's kind of splitting hairs, and it's disingenous," he said.

Roughly 15 parents on Briarcliff stood with signs, protesting for about an hour. Some cars honked in support as they drove past. Kelli Raviele, a parent to a first-grader and third-grader, said she simply wants DeWitt to remain in her post.

"The overwhelming reason the majority of parents chose the school is because of her," she said.

IHM Parent

2:00 pm on Friday, March 25, 2011

This article is a wondering testament to the hard work and dedication that Mrs. DeWitt has put in to the school. She loves it with all of her heart and IHM loves her! As parents, we are going to continue to push for her reinstatement.

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ParentforIHM

3:03 pm on Friday, March 25, 2011

The parents and teachers want Mrs. DeWitt to remain on. The Archdiocese has not taken one action to show us that they care what the parents or teachers think. It is about them and they have repeatedly slammed the door in our face. It's insulting that they won't even hear our opinions out. We know they have the ultimate decision making but at least hear our concerns instead of repeating the same lines over and over 'she resigned'. There is a lot more to be said.

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Pen

3:10 pm on Friday, March 25, 2011

Honest question for the IHM parents: If the pastor and principal didn't get along before, how could they possibly expect to co-exist now? If what they say happened really happened they should be protesting the archbishop for allowing one of his priests to bully the school. They are wasting their time trying to erase the past and ask others to pretend nothing has happened.

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IHM Parent

3:51 pm on Friday, March 25, 2011

As a parent of an IHM student, I can let you know that we are also asking the Archdiocese to look into our pastor absuing our school. We have repeatedly asked the Archbishop to look into this matter, but like everything else, the Archbishop has repeatedly ignored our requests for a full investigation. We are also staging weekly protests at the Archdiocesan offices in order to shed light on this matter. We plan to continue to fight until our conerns are addressed.

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Pen

4:09 pm on Friday, March 25, 2011

As a former Catholic I understand your frustration. But don't we know by now that this is the Catholic Church? Do we expect any different?
Does the principal want another job? It seems to me the most likely outcome of these protests is she will never be hired by the archdiocese again, no matter who is at fault.
If half the things mentioned on here before are true, I have to believe someone (the AJC?) would be interested in a look at the relationship between Catholic schools and churches. I still don't see how anyone can think it would be a good idea for the principal and the paster to work together again.

Sal DePasquale

6:31 pm on Friday, March 25, 2011

I am so amazed at the dysfunctional way in which the Archdiocese has responded to this. In the beginning it was easy to find a resolution. Now, it is clear the Pastor has to go. If he does not, its time to find another school. Left behind is the residue of a tsunami created by the Pastor. Is it possible that the Archdiocese has no concern for the views of the congregation? I suspect it is.

Sal DePasquale

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ParentforIHM

7:52 pm on Friday, March 25, 2011

BTW, there were more like 20+ parents out there at various times and it was for close to two hours. The drive-by support was exceptional and the parents are engergized once again. You all should join us next time. You might learn something.

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IHM Parent

8:18 pm on Friday, March 25, 2011

When I showed up, I counted 29 people. There were additional people who showed up after I did so I am guessing that the total count is somewhere between 30 and 40. It was a wonderful experience!!!!

IHM Parent

10:41 pm on Friday, March 25, 2011

This is a true picture of the Archidocese just covering up another mess. Instead of looking into the matter, they put their head in the sand hoping it will go away. Even if Mrs. DeWitt is not the principal, which is devasting to think, the issues have to be resolved for any principal to do their job effectively. We will not go away.

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Greg Kaiser

12:12 am on Saturday, March 26, 2011

Mrs. DeWitt is one of the most dedicated, loving educators it has ever been my pleasure to work with. After her more than thirty years of dedication to that parish and school, I am saddened that it has come to this. My heart and my prayers are with the entire IHM School family, faculty, parents, students and clergy alike.

To the Archdiocese I say, "Good people are hard to find. Don't be so quick to discard those who have dedicated themselves, heart and soul, professionally and personally, to the important work of your schools. There is no one who personifies this dedication more than Patricia DeWitt."

Greg Kaiser
Former principal, Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic School

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Another IHM Parent

5:13 pm on Saturday, March 26, 2011

The Archbishop needs to step in and get involved. Ignoring things may have worked in the old days when communications were poor and people needed the church. This turning a blind eye will not work these days. For evidence look at what is happening in the middle east. Wake up church!!! There have been disfunctional governance activities (Pastor getting too involved in the school) for a while now and this will be evidenced in a SACS report to come out in a couple of months. However the damage will be done by then. The suprintendent is aware of this but cannot seem to do anything as she is powerless against the church. The next best thing is to speak with your wallets - stop contributing to IHM Parish and give your money elsewhere. Also, get more involved in the school so we can keep close watch on the operations of the school.

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Sal DePasquale

4:33 am on Sunday, March 27, 2011

The tactic of no response used by the Archdiocese is the ultimate expression of contempt and disdain. Over a month ago correspondence was hand delivered, with about 50 signature, asking for the Archdiocese to review Mrs. DeWitt's resignation.

It would seem that the Archdiocese would not need anyone to ask them to review a resignation by a highly accomplished Principal, but it did. The silly response from the Superintendent that we should simply honor the resignation is so disconnected from reality words cannot describe it.

The response from the Archdiocese has sent a very clear message. The congregation means zero to the Archdiocese.

Sal DePasquale

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Long Time IHMer

12:52 pm on Sunday, March 27, 2011

There are 500 students at IHM. 15 or 20 0r 30 parents does not represent a big number. It represents the lunatic fringe.

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Sal DePasquale

1:31 pm on Sunday, March 27, 2011

The controversy centers on the Parish Pastor inserting himself into school operations, thereby creating friction with the school Principal. This issue is viewed as significant enough for the acceditation agency to express concern about it. Do you, the Long Time IHMer have anything to add that would provide additional context so the issue may be viewed appropriately.

The "lunatic fringe" has asked the Archdiocese to review the resignation and the circumstances surrounding it. The "lunatic fringe" has suggested that if there is an operational conflict, perhaps the Archdiocese could resolve the dispute and a Blue Ribbon School of Excellence Principal retained. I suspect you find this to be unreasonable.

What's that old adage" If you can't argue the facts, call people names.

Sal DePasquale

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Jonathan Cribbs

3:04 pm on Sunday, March 27, 2011

OK, Long Time IHMer, settle down. I don't have a dog in this fight–or any fight, generally, by the nature of my job–but "lunatic fringe" is a little extreme. They're not hurling Molotov cocktails at the school or anything.

IHMTeacher

12:04 am on Monday, March 28, 2011

Sorry for waiting so long to write... it's finally time for someone who is "immediately involved" to comment. Some Long Time IHMers or former parents are commenting about accepting Mrs. DeWitt's resignation as the final word and moving on to maintain the peace. Unfortunately, for those of you who aren't currently part of IHM's parish or school, you can't intelligently comment on the subject. You aren't walking the halls of the school... you don't arrive at work each day wondering whether or not you'll have another incredibly capable leader chosen by a group of the pastor's choosing. You don't have to answer questions from your students and concerned parents about why Mrs. DeWitt is really leaving if she loves the school so much. You don't have to sit through faculty meetings where the pastor simply says "this is MY decision and we'll all have to live with it" when you've heard the week before that your leader is leaving via an impersonal email from the pastor. I've raved for years about IHM School and the feeling of family, intense love and spiritual growth that comes from being a part of this place. I've taught under other principals at other schools and there is no principal more capable and more committed to her position as a role model and Catholic example as Tricia DeWitt. I think it's just plain foolish for anyone to state that Mrs. DeWitt resigned and just wanted to leave. All of us who work alongside of her and have known her for years know this is not her wish.

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IHMTeacher

12:11 am on Monday, March 28, 2011

Additionally, to whomever commented about this being an HR issue and "we may never know all the details", it certainly would be.... except teachers have already appealed to HR about problems occurring between the school personnel and the pastor and details that we are aware of and we teachers have received the same bland form response that parents are receiving... "there is no problem, Mrs. DeWitt resigned and she was not forced." Why would we continue to go to the Archdiocese's Human Resource Dept. when they don't listen to our concerns? When true concerns were voiced, we were silenced just like every parent who's asked more about the situation. Parents, teachers, and community members deserve more than a form answer when their child's education and spiritual growth is at stake. Bottom line. I would think the Archbishop and the Archdiocese would be gravely concerned. I'm still praying they don't continue to let us down.

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Concernedparent

1:31 am on Monday, March 28, 2011

IHMTeacher, thank you for having the courage to speak out and set the record straight. The Archdiocese needs to wake up and realize that we are not going away. We will not be silent, and we refuse to accept this "just because I said so" attitude. Shame on the Archdiocese for allowing such intimidation and abuse of power. Where is the moral compass from our leaders? The sad reality is that Mrs. DeWitt has been that moral compass, but 'the powers that be' want to silence her. For anyone who has ever walked through the doors of IHM school, you can attest to how special of a place it is. Our school, our principal and teachers are not the problem here - they are simply the sad casualties of bad behavior on the part of our church leaders. It is time for the Archdiocese to stop trying to save face by ignoring the issues and do the right thing. They could learn a thing or two from Mrs. DeWitt on what it means to live by example.

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Pen

1:02 pm on Monday, March 28, 2011

Teacher,
Part of the problem is, IMO, people are still being too polite. If you want the full story out there, you need to get it out there. I understand that there are concerns about your job. Doing it here might at least help, or figuring out how to talk to this reporter above without the reporter using your name.

Right now there is only vague suggestions of a pastor overreaching, or bullying the school, and nothing official. And so right or wrong most in the parish suspect the complainers are overstating their case. If you want to win the public opinion battle, you need to not name names of kids or names of parents, but say the paster was interupting lessons or the paster went to a teacher and yelled at them because a parent complained or whatever it was.

Blue Ribbon Parent

10:19 am on Monday, March 28, 2011

Long Time IHMer,

If you had attended any of the Town Hall Meetings that were organized by IHM School parents, due to the refusal of Fr. Schilllinger and the Archdiocese to hold any such meetings to address parent concerns, then you would be aware that well in excess of 200 parents have attended these meetings. You would also be aware that the issues raised by the parents at these meetings are legitimate concerns that affect your children as well, assuming that you have children at IHM. Further, if you had taken the time to meet with teachers, staff, and Mrs. DeWitt, then you would be aware that Mrs. DeWitt wants to remain as principal of IHM School, that the teachers feel intimidated by the Pastor, and that there are serious concerns with compliance of the SAIS/SACS Standards and Indicators for accreditation/re-accreditation related to governance at the school, as well as the Administrative Structure policies of the Archdiocese of Atlanta. Not to mention, the minimal involvement of Fr. Schillinger in the spiritual guidance and enrichment of our children at IHM School.

It is certainly your perogative not to ask questions or investigate any of the foregoing issues. To criticize other parents who are asking questions, investigating the issues, and demanding answers related to their children's education and what is in the best interests of their children, the administration/faculty/staff, and IHM School, however, is uninformed at best.

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LEO7504

10:31 am on Monday, March 28, 2011

I'm also an IHM parent. I haven't been on the front lines protesting, but I've certainly voiced my concerns to the Archdiocese and asked for this situation to be reviewed to prevent the loss of our next principal. Of course my concerns were ignored, just like everyone else's. I find it sad for Long Time IHMer to call those publicly voicing their concerns as the "lunatic fringe." Long Time IHMer, have you even bothered to speak with teachers and/or Mrs. DeWitt? And I don't mean talking to the 2 or 3 teachers who actually support the pastor. Teachers have recently asked if parents have given up this "fight," afraid that they have done so. The "lunatic fringe" is simply trying to be the voice for the teachers, as they have no voice in this matter. Our pastor has made it clear that he doesn't care what our teachers think, just as he doesn't care what we parents think. And through this, it has become clear that the Archbishop also doesn't care. What a sad situation. Long Time IHMer, if you have indeed been at the school for a long time, I would think you would have more regard for the teachers' feelings. If it makes me a lunatic for actually caring, I'll gladly accept that label. I'd rather be part of the "lunatic fringe" than sit back and allow a dictatorial pastor lead with manipulation and intimidation and do nothing about it.

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IHM Mom

10:58 am on Monday, March 28, 2011

Thank You IHM Teacher and Concernedparent. I am a current IHM parent and what you say is very true ~ IHM is a very special place and under the academic and spiritual leadership of Tricia DeWitt our school has thrived and become the best school in the Archdiocese. This is a fact.
How Archbishop Gregory can sit back and let this school suffer is absolutely beyond my comprehension. Our school community has written and begged for help, we have followed all of the proper channels to ask for investigations into known abuses of power by our pastor, and we get nothing. It's also well known that Archbishop Gregory and Fr. Schillinger are good friends. We hear Fr. Schillinger brag about it in church! The Catholic Brotherhood at work once again, only this time the children who are suffering are the students of IHM!
Yes, we all know Tricia DeWitt turned in her resignation. We also know she was under extreme duress! We ask for help investigating WHY was she under duress? What forced her to act this way at the height of her career? WHY? Why when she asked our pastor to rescind her resignation did he not ? Earlier in a letter he said he was "reluctant" to accept her resignation, why not give it back and work things out? (because he wants her gone! ) To the Long Time IHMer, you couldn't be more wrong, your numbers are way, way off....Are you a current parent? Do think everything is OK? Are you happy with the idea of Tricia DeWitt leaving? If so, can you tell us why?

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Pen

12:59 pm on Monday, March 28, 2011

These abuses of power, and these things that required the HR department, without names they should be made public. Right now the parish and the community are only getting part of the story. If you want to win this debate, you need to be as straight forward as possible.

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IHM Parent

1:49 pm on Monday, March 28, 2011

Pen, you are absolutely correct! Those items SHOULD be made public, and the community is also getting only part of the story. Since the Archdiocese refused our requests to have these concerns addressed in an adult, mature manner, we have taken to peaceful demonstrations. As we receive more information, it is becoming a lot easier to be more straight forward, and yes, this will help us win the debate!

ParentforIHM

8:33 pm on Monday, March 28, 2011

Every demonstration I attend becomes more empowering. They provide me with a voice and behind my 1 little sign is a community of parents and teachers that cannot be out there. Maybe I'll have each teacher create a sign that I can take out there on April 3 since they are not allowed to show up themselves without fear of losing their jobs.

Did you know that the teachers were threatened with insubordination if they showed up at a demonstration?

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IHM Parent

8:42 pm on Monday, March 28, 2011

The teachers have also been threatened with insubordination for attending prayer vigils or any of the town hall meetings.

IHMTeacher

10:47 pm on Monday, March 28, 2011

We've just received the letter we knew we'd get... teachers should not be commenting on public forums. So for all of those parents who are working so hard to get the truth out there, please keep asking questions! Pen, I absolutely agree with what you're saying about putting specific examples out there. And I promise you that many teachers have numerous examples... but when we put those out there, other people in places of higher power then can easily determine who gave certain information and we would certainly be reprimanded, if not fired. Teachers know a great deal and have seen a great deal of evidence with their own eyes and ears, but many people would be held responsible for this specific information getting out and we would struggle to maintain our jobs or acquire one in the future. It's a shame.

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Pen

7:19 am on Tuesday, March 29, 2011

This is just what I mean, though. Who was the letter from? The superintendent? The paster? The principal? Who specifically has threatened teachers for attending prayer vigils or meetings or demonstrations? It all sounds like gossip as written (not saying it is, but trying to explain why so many are willing to brush things off). Even getting that letter to a parent who can get it out there to others without a teacher's name attached would make a statement. Right now it is all rhetoric, and that doesn't win a debate.

If this letter is out there I find it hard to believe there isn't a news person in town who would be curious to do a story on the church threatening its employees about participating in public forums and interacting with their students' parents. But the letter needs to be out there for it to happen.

Sal DePasquale

4:53 am on Tuesday, March 29, 2011

In response to the recent correspondence from Starkovitch:

You indicate that the Archdiocese has the Policy Manual for Catholic Schools. Has Father Schillinger complied with the Policy Manual?

Your explanation of the legal foundation for school operations was somewhat confusing. Does it mean that the accreditation agencies are irrelevant? If they are relevant and they do examine issues of school governance, has Father Schillinger operated in compliance with the standards used by the accreditation agency? If they are not relevant, have you informed the accreditation agency of such and have you been misleading them in the past by acting as if they are relevant?

As a Superintendent of Schools are you not a bit disturbed that the Principal of your only Blue Ribbon School of Excellence has unexpectedly resigned? Do you and Archbishop Gregory share a chuckle at the concerns expressed by parents? Has the Archdiocese structured its response to the parents based upon the example set during the pedophelia scandal?

Since questions about her resignation have been directed to you and Father Schillinger, and since Father Schillinger is a subject of the conflict, are you aware of any reasons for the conflict? Does the conflict have to do with governance issues or is there something more serious underlying the conflict? Would the blank response from the Archdiocese cause you to think there was something more pernicious taking place?

Sal DePasquale

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Sal DePasquale

6:04 am on Tuesday, March 29, 2011

I have misspoken. IHM is not the only Blue Ribbon school in the Archdiocese. Christ the King, Holy Redeemer, Queen of Angels, St. John the Evangelis and Our Lady of Victory have also achieved the status of Excellence. And so I made a mistake.

Wow, that wasn't so bad. Admitting a mistake, no admitting I was wrong, is not so painful.

Sal DePasquale

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IHM Parent

10:36 am on Tuesday, March 29, 2011

I would like to link to the notes that a set of parents took while meeting with Fr. Schillinger in early March. Fr. Schillinger was made aware that these notes were going to be "published", and he was given the opportunity to review them prior to them being circulated. He did not request any changes.

http://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=193446957352418

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IHMTeacher

9:34 pm on Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Pen, we can't get these letters and emails out there because they are specific to certain employees...it would lead to the loss of jobs and most of us can't afford that and don't want to leave the school we love. I wish there were another way to get more of the truth out there.

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IHM Parishioner

12:15 pm on Wednesday, March 30, 2011

As a parishioner of IHM for nine years now, I have been disheartened by Fr. Schillinger’s behavior over the years. Sadly, this latest incident with the school does not surprise me. Oh, and if anyone is curious I can tell you exactly why Fr. Schillinger will not agree to a town hall on this issue. It is because the last time he held a town hall, concerning the construction of the new church building, he was shocked to discover that people disagreed with his plans and expressed concerns about them. It turned into Father shouting at several members of the parish. It was hardly a shouting match (as he claims) – it was all one sided – his side. This and other incidents over the years have demonstrated that Fr. Schillinger has a “my way or the highway” aggressive mentality that is incompatible with parish life. He needs to be reassigned to a chaplaincy somewhere that does not involve running a parish or a school. Bishop Gregory, I know Fr. Schillinger is your friend but please remember your responsibility to the people and get him out of IHM!

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Concernedparent

1:41 pm on Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Thank you, IHM Parishioner. We are clearly seeing a pattern here of one sided monologues and tirades. The most appauling truth is that the Archdiocese is allowing this behavior to continue. One would hope that somewhere deep inside these holy men exists a conscience. The bottom line is that Archbishop has been silent to the cries of his people, and those working under him have been less than honorable in their actions and words. It seems now that the only goal is in silencing our voices rather than dealing with our concerns and the very real on-going problems we are facing. What in the world ever happened to the Catholic church, OUR church standing up for issues of social justice? It is time for the intimidation and silence to stop!

AtlResident

7:12 am on Thursday, March 31, 2011

As an IHM Parishioner I am deeply saddened by this situation. It is not only embarrassing how these parents and Mrs. DeWitt are acting but also extremely distractive and disruptive. In the public sector, if an employee acted in an insubordinate manner they would be escorted out – the Church has shown great patience in dealing with this situation. If Mrs. DeWitt wanted these protests to end, she would have put a stop to it but has chosen to allow them to continue. While these adults are working on their own agendas, they seem to have forgotten how disruptive this is to the kids trying to learn something at school – which is the saddest part about it all. Setting this type of bad example and broadcasting it over the news is an embarrassment to all at IHM.

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Sal DePasquale

7:48 am on Thursday, March 31, 2011

AtlResident, I assume your comments are serious. I am protesting the forced removal of Mrs. DeWitt and I did not ask Mrs. DeWitt or anyone else for permission. If you are in the public sector, you certainly are aware of the Constitution and First Amendment Rights. People in the public sector are also protected by the First Amendment.

You may find it informative that the Archdiocese has issued a policy manual for the guidance of the schools. It appears Archdiocese policy has been violated, placed the Principal in a hostile environment where she could not exercise her duties in accordance with policy, and was compelled to resign. Her resignation alerted the customers of the school of which I am one. I have a right, and a duty as a follower of Christ, to complain and voice my protest.

The bad example, in my view, is an Archdiocese that fails to enforce its own policy and has placed in jeopardy is highly successful school. The bad example is an Archdiocese that has failed to respond to direct and specific questions. The bad example is the manipulation attempted by church leaders who state Mrs. DeWitt's resignation was unexpectly received and reluctantly accepted, while refusing to permit her to rescind the resignation, a painfully obvious contradiction. The bad example is the naked powerplay to remove a Principal and quickly find a replacement, so the referees do not have time to review the play.

Please note, I am not afraid to sign my name.

Sal DePasquale

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LEO7504

7:59 am on Thursday, March 31, 2011

AltResident, your comment shows how little you know about the situation, and it also shows how our pastor has misled the congregation. What, exactly, has Mrs. DeWitt done wrong? If you want to be angry toward parents, that's one thing, but Mrs. DeWitt has done nothing wrong. She hasn't contacted media, and she has sent several emails asking parents to stop protesting on her behalf, asking that the focus be on the children. What do you want her to do, go outside with pepper spray when parents show up to protest peacefully? The only thing she will do is meet with parents one-on-one, when they have questions about why she is leaving, which is what a good principal should do. She has behaved with the utmost grace and class. If Tricia wanted to, she could reveal a LOT of information. She would never do that because she loves our school and she loves the students. And yes, it IS embarrassing! But, it could have ALL been avoided. Our pastor had the power to avoid this entire thing and he chose not to do so. As for the students, they are learning and thriving, as they have always done at IHM. Maybe you should pay a visit to the school and see what goes on inside. Despite our pastor's disinterest, IHM School is still an incredible place full of joy, love, and blessings. I'm honored to have a child there, even in this situation. As a fellow IHM Parishioner, I only wish I felt that same outpouring of love when I stepped inside of the church.

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Sal DePasquale

8:39 am on Thursday, March 31, 2011

By the way, insubordination relates to the performance of job duties; it does not relate to the First Amendment. I suspect teachers have been warned against participation in protest or their jobs are at stake. Georgia is an employment at will state. I'm not a lawyer but as I understand it the employer can terminate employment without a reason. But if a reason is given, it needs to be a legal reason. I suspect a prohibition against exercising Constitutional rights, outside the workplace, would represent a problem for the employer. I wonder how it works with yearly contracts.

Archbishop Gregory has indicated his support for non-violent protest. On Good Friday he plans to conclude his Stations of the Cross at the MLK monument which represents non-violent protest. It must be nice for him to drape himself in the robes of Martin Luther King.

I suspect this episode is a test of Archbishop Gregory's stated beliefs. Its one thing to state them; quite another to actually live them. It has been said many times, the making of a person is not how you act when things are going your way; it is how you act when they are not. I pray his beliefs have more substance than his school policy which,when unenforced, is hollow.

Here's a question, if teachers participate in the Good Friday festivities and they wear an IHM logo, would that be considered insubordination?

Sal DePasquale

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Blue Ribbon Parent

10:26 am on Thursday, March 31, 2011

AtlResident,
Everyone is entitled to an opinion. Your comments reveal a complete lack of knowledge with respect to the situation at IHM School. Fr. Schillinger has violated SAIS/SACS Standards & Indicators (the dual accreditation agencies) related to governance of the school, as well as Archdiocesan governance policies, that put the accreditation of the school at risk. This will come out in the Accreditation Committee Report, one way or another. The school administation, faculty, & staff have been intimidated and threatened during his tenure at IHM. Fr. Schillinger spends virtually no time providing spiritual guidance and enrichment to the children of the school. That is in direct contravention of Policy 20oo of the Archdiocesan Policy Manual which provides, "In parisch schools, the pastor's most important role is that of spritual leadership of the parish community."

In the public sector, if an employee had acted in the manner that Fr. Schillinger has, he would have been terminated immediately. And his employer quite likely would have been sued as a result of his actions. The only patience shown by the Church in dealing with this situation has been with respect to allowing Fr. Schillinger's actions to go unabated. It has totally ignored the parents concerns & refused to investigate or address them in any manner. Any embarassment brought to IHM is at the hands of the Archdiocese and its leadership.

The remainder of this response will follow due 2 space lmt

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Blue Ribbon Parent

10:28 am on Thursday, March 31, 2011

AtlResident (continued),

If standing up for what is right and fighting to protect our children, the administration, faculty, staff, and the accreditation of the school itself is an "agenda," then those parents, parishioners, and teachers that have taken this on stand guilty as charged. Everyone involved has gone to great lengths to protect our children. Ours know only what they have been told at school- that Mrs. DeWitt is leaving as principal.

May God bless everyone involved in this sad situation.

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4:05 pm on Thursday, March 31, 2011

Who is this Tim Buckley that apperently has a great deal of influence with Father on school hirings and other school matters?

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IHM Parent

9:34 pm on Thursday, March 31, 2011

Tim Buckley is a member of various councils and committes at the parish and school. Given that he is not a public figure and is not employed by the Archdiocese, I do not think that it is appropriate to discuss him in this forum. This does not mean he is or is not involved, but we really should not be discussing his role here.

Tim Buckley

12:26 pm on Friday, April 1, 2011

I am Tim Buckley. To shed some light on this, I will quote the Zen philospher Ron Burgundy:
"I don't know how to put this but I'm kind of a big deal. People know me.
I'm very important. I have many leather-bound books and my apartment smells of rich mahogany. " -- Anchorman.
The only school hiring in which I have participated in my years as a parishioner and parent is as a member of the search committee that met before Mrs. Dewitt was rehired. I also gave a letter of recommendation for Mrs. Etheridge when she applied to IHM. Otherwise, none. I hope everyone has a great spring break!

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IHMPARENT3

11:37 pm on Friday, April 1, 2011

Tim: if you were part of the committe that helped bring Ms Dewitt back why did you stop supporting her? What are your reasons for not supporting her to stay at IHM?

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IHMPARENT3

11:34 pm on Friday, April 1, 2011

WHERE ARE THE 200+ PARENTS THAT CAME TO THE TOWN HALLS? STAND UP FOR WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN! SIGN THE PETITION THAT SUPPORTS IHM AND OUR CHILDREN.
THIS PETITION DOES NOT SHOW ALL THE MANY SUPPORTERS OUT THERE.
ARE YOU NOT SIGNING BC YOU ARE AFRAID TO SIGN YOUR NAME? DO THE RIGHT THING!

Sal DePasquale

6:56 am on Saturday, April 2, 2011

Thank goodness we have the PATCH where people have an opportunity to express themselves. The frustration, anger, fear and disillusionment are more than evident in the many postings to this article and to the other article.
A religious faith based upon a man who courageously stood up against arrogant church elders and for justice is the foundation for followers who fervently believe in justice and who are offened by an abuse of power.
Appeals to the Archdiocese for addressing the injustice have been met with a condescending attitude and in many instances silence.
And so we are left with protest through demonstrations, petitions, pray vigils and the like. Most people are uncomfortable with these actions and many simply do not have the time. The tragedy is that a Pastor would be the impetus for such turmoil in a Parish that was so cohesive.
The problem, in my view, is not Mr. Buckley or the many parishioners who refrain from action; the problem is the leadership of a faith based on justice, that simply has failed to respond.

Sal DePasquale

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Sal DePasquale

7:14 am on Saturday, April 2, 2011

It has been said that the Archiocese Policy Manual stipulates that the Pastor is the employer and, in all matters, is the ultimate decision maker. But the Policy Manual also stipulates a specific role for the Pastor and it stipulates specific duties for the Principal in administration of the school. It would seem to me that if the notation of the Pastor as the ultimate decision maker means that the Pastor can totally disregard the rest of the Policy Manual, then it really isn't a Policy Manual, it is a guideline. If that is the case and if the Archdiocese Policy is little more than a suggestion, then it should be labelled Archdiocese Guidebook, not a Policy Manual.
If it is to be accepted as a policy manual, within the parameters of Administration, the Pastor is the employer and is responsible for signing contracts. The Principal is responsible for school administration which includes, but not limited to, staff selection and supervision, training, curriculum, financial mangement, and other such tasks normally aligned under the umbrella of administration. Pastor interference violates the Archdiocese Policy, if the Archdiocese Policy is, indeed, a policy and not merely a suggestion, in my view.

In protesting in support of Mrs. DeWitt it has been said many times that the Catholic Church is not a democracy. I'm not looking for a referendum, I'm looking for the Archdiocese to enforce its own rules, if in fact, they are more than mere suggestions.

Sal DePasquale

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Crash

8:36 am on Saturday, April 2, 2011

The Archbishop isn't going to say anything because he wants the million dollars. Follow the money. If the million dollars was being withheld then you'd hear from him.

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Sal DePasquale

9:45 am on Saturday, April 2, 2011

It seems to me the key is school governance. If the Pastor can bypass the Policy Manual at his whim, then the Manual is hollow. This is very imporant for parents with children in the school, because it could place in jeopardy the school's accreditation. I would also suspect that if the acceditation agency recognizes that what they thought was a governing document, is not governing and is subject to the Pastor's whim, it would place in jeopardy every Catholic school in the Archdiocese. I know governance is an issue reviewed the the accreditors and that governance was an issue in Clayton County, but I do not know if it is a show stopper. In any event, a school that operates at the Pastor's whim is not much of a school.

I'd like to hear from some of the attorneys at the Parish. I understand teachers have been told their jobs will be in jeopardy if they participate in any demonstrations. I can understand that restriction when they are on the job, but when they are off the job can the Archdiocese take away their First Amendment rights? I understand the church is excused from certain aspects of Civil Rights, but can it use the freedom of religion arguement to circumvent the freedom of speech? Can it use the first amendment to argue against the first amendment? That would be interesting.

Sal DePasquale

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ParentforIHM

10:40 am on Saturday, April 2, 2011

Dear ATLResident, The BP Oil spill was embarrassing too. No one wanted it. It's wasn't good for business. However they owned it and it is the PEOPLE that made them own it. Notice that the CEO was removed and a thorough investigation is still underway. BP acknowledges that the 'healing' will require a huge PR effort to repair the damage but at least they appear committed to it. They aren't telling everyone to 'get over it'. They will be held accountable to correct any wrong doings so that the tragedy doesn't happen again.

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ParentforIHM

11:06 pm on Saturday, April 2, 2011

The New Orlean's principal resignation/firing got a lot more press. Here is another link that is from 3/25.

http://www.nola.com/education/index.ssf/2011/03/angst_still_surges_at_st_andre.html

You can also google the school name and see more press articles to understand their situation.

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Blue Ribbon Parent

8:13 am on Sunday, April 3, 2011

In the immortal words of former NY Yankees Hall of Famer, Yogi Berra, "It's deja vu all over again." It sounds like the majority of the minimal comments made by the Archdiocese of New Orleans came from the exact same script used by the Archdiocese of Atlanta. Just as in IHM's case, the amount of information protected by human resources or employee/employer confidentiality is minimal; particularly so when the empolyee involved is willing to make the information available publicly. It is disgraceful that ours or any Archdiocese would act in such a manner. This is symptomatic of the reason many have left the Catholic church.

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Sal DePasquale

11:24 am on Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Archbishop Gregory participated in the memorial services for Martin Luther King this week. he should reflect upon King's view of justice.

I read Dr. Starkovitch's letter about Canon Law again.If Canon Law applies, should not Sharia Law apply?

Sal

Anna SAS Parent Chiasson

9:30 am on Monday, April 4, 2011

Saint Andrew the Apostle facing similar situation in New Orleans.

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Sal DePasquale

5:01 am on Tuesday, April 5, 2011

The school governance issue is very important. It was key in Clayton County Schools losing accreditation and it was key in the troubles for Atlanta Public Schools and Dekalb County Schools.

Sal DePasquale

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IHM Parent

8:22 pm on Saturday, April 9, 2011

As a parent, please make sure you "cooperate closely with the teachers of the schools [sic]". I think that you may be interested in the Canon Law pertaining to schools (796.2 may interest you). Check it out!!!

http://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG1104/__P2N.HTM

Sal DePasquale

4:52 pm on Sunday, April 10, 2011

Thank you for your advice. People do resign, but sometimes they resign to draw attention to a problem. It seems evident the problem is with the Pastor interfering with the Principal's ability to perform her duties as specified in the Archdiocese Policy Manual. That same Policy Manual is used by the acceditation agency in its evaluation of school governance. I may be incorrect, but as I read it, the Pastor's role is rather clearly defined. If he is violating a policy of school governance, the higher authority--the Archdiocese--should teach him how to play nice in the sandbox and, perhaps, to not act like a bully. If the Archdiocese takes the position that it is not their problem and the Pastor can override the Policy Manual, then the Policy Manual is more of a guideline.

This should be important to SAIC, because they may have incorrectly viewed the Policy Manual as an actual Policy Manual. To be sure, if this element of school governance is meaningless and subject to the Pastor's whim, it would seem plausible that it would impact every school accredited in the Archdiocese.

Just as SACS removed accreditation from Clayton County and placed Dekalb County and Atlanta Public Schools on probation, due in part to issues of governance, SAIC should apply the same precedent as it deals with Archdiocese schools. I suspect you would agree that would be the fair and honorable thing to do.

As for hating Father Schillinger, not even close.

Sal DePasquale

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Concernedparent

1:36 pm on Monday, April 11, 2011

AtlResident, be careful for what you ask for. You most certainly will get change, but it will most likely not be a bigger and better future. I challenge you to look deeper into this situation and what has brought our school to this point. There are on-going governance issues here, and they have yet to be addressed. Are you willing to accept a new principal who will be a puppet, or are you willing to accept a situation that sets itself up for revolving door principals? I am not. I am not resistant to change if it is for the good. I fail to see that in our current situation. I am sorry that you are embarrassed by this situation, but I remind you that we did not create this situation - Fr. Schillinger has. We are only trying to clean up his mess and prevent an even greater tragedy from occurring with the loss of our teachers and the leadership that has brought our school to National Blue Ribbon status.

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ParentforIHM

3:54 pm on Monday, April 11, 2011

Sometimes change can be a good thing and other times it just disrupts a perfectly working system. What we are so angry about with this change is that it didn't have to happen because nothing was broken with our school. Unfortunately, through this 'change' we have learned that things are broken and now the one person that was holding it together is no longer going to be there.

As parents we can ensure that the future 'change' is under controllsince we clearly can't change the past.

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Blue Ribbon Parent

10:47 pm on Monday, April 11, 2011

Sue,

Fr. Schillinger has violated SAIS/SACS Standards & Indicators (the dual accreditation agencies) related to governance of the school, as well as Archdiocesan governance policies, that put the accreditation of the school at risk. That will come out in the Accreditation Committee Report, one way or another. If you had taken the time to ask questions and meet with Mrs. DeWitt, you would know this already.

Ask any experienced teacher and they will tell you that the principal dictates the direction of the school. Meet with and ask any IHM teacher (including Fr. Schillinger supporters) and they will tell you that IHM would not be the Blue Ribbon School of Excellence that it is without the leadership of Tricia DeWitt.

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Sal DePasquale

1:21 pm on Friday, April 15, 2011

It appears Sue was correct. I spoke with the accreditation office and they are disinterested. I was told that if I didn't like what was going at IHM, I should vote with my feet and go somewhere else. So much for accreditation.

Sal

Lucy Mauterer

1:05 pm on Friday, April 15, 2011

You have a wonderful school at IHM, but if the Archdiocese is unwilling to step in and at least listen to parents and investigate the situation, you have a problem. If most parents are happy with Mrs. DeWitt, and are currently supporting the school and the Diocese with their monies, then the leadership would be wise to take note.

When one person is allowed to bully those he is contracted to serve (I'm referring to Fr. Schillinger) eventually the children will suffer. The atmosphere in the school will change, make no mistake about this. When people feel disempowered, there is a response. Keep digging to find out the truth of the matter. My guess is that there are motives and agendas that are still hidden and that have nothing to do with a love of children or their well-being.

And hey, if all else fails, take your faith (and money) elsewhere.

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